Over 60 years in each other’s lives,
Surfing the waves of highs and lows.
Enduring tsunamis of emotion.
Living, loving, hating but never ignoring.
Always engaged
Now as we head to port,
The end almost in sight,
We navigated mainly with fair winds and following seas,
Occasionally full sails held close to the wind,
And the doldrums, only pauses that emphasized
The beauty of our voyage.
Memory is a quirky thing
Good ones leap to mind
Jumping fish at the end of eternity’s pole,
Bad ones huddle, snakes in a dark basket
Only stirred forward by prodding.
But why prod? It was done.
Done.
We are solid, a team
We smile at the same songs
We crack up at private jokes
We get teary over tiny gestures
We are grateful for each other’s company
Unnumbered days ahead, begin to feel numbered.
How many?
I’ve never been good at math.
Numbers have been known to lie.
I only know that the days are precious
Not endless as when we were seventeen
How did we last so long?
How did we come so far?
Together!
A mystery that needs no resolution.
Chronos has ushered us nearer to our ‘sell-by’ date
Health is now the prominent daily topic
Parkinsons has robbed you of prime vigor
I assume roles for which I didn’t audition
Mutual patience is our new superpower
The thought “will he be here next year?”
Now resonates in daily reckoning.
But the question, “will I?” comes less frequently.
How will I be me without you?
The tether is so strong.
I am only an actor in this play
Not the author
I am not privy
To the final scene
I will play it as it comes
With faith
I wrote this poem for Ken in celebration of his 80th birthday and over 61 years of being together.